Wednesday, April 8, 2009

"How" is none of your business...

Here's another little Telling A New Story tip for you.

"How" is none of your business.

(It's none of MY business either.)

Your new story has some elements in it that are quite different from what you are currently living.

Am I correct?

You want to make what seem like some pretty major shifts, right?

So, let's say, hypothetically, that you are currently living in Southeastern New York.

Your job is here. Your family is here. Your friends are here. You are pretty well rooted here.

And let's say, hypothetically, that your new story has you living in San Diego, or even just north in Del Mar.

Maybe you are even dreaming of moving into this house. Or an equally lovely one.

There are countless elements that would need to line up for this all to happen in a way that feels good.

May seem impossible to some.

And you could, like most of us, get obsessed with the details of "how" this could all possibly unfold.

But I have learned that "HOW" is none of our business.

Let go of "HOW".

Most of the time the "how" is going to unfold in ways that you cannot even imagine from your very limited perspective.

And you worrying (or even thinking about) "how" just cuts you off from the natural flow of the universal energies.

"How" just puts you in a place of feeling doubtful.

"How" drains your joy about the unfolding of the story.

Focusing on "how" will keep your story from unfolding.

So, leave "how" out of the equation.

Try saying this "I don't know how our move to Del Mar will unfold, but I know it will be even better than I can imagine." [um, well, insert your own new story element, LOL!]

Remember that our words and our intentions and our emotions all create our future reality.

Find ways to feel good about what you are wanting and increase your knowingness that it will unfold.

Just don't concern yourself with the "how."

The "how" will knock your socks off.

I guarantee it.

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